Apr 14 2008

6 Reasons People Think Fat Girls Are Easy

On a few of the message forums that I belong to the debate is started again that fat girls are sexually loose because of low self esteem.  The last time I checked low self esteem is not something that is exclusively fat so to equate bigger ladies with low self esteem and sex is crazy.  As usual I have my own thoughts on why people think that way not to mention not afraid to speak my mind.

6 Reasons People Think Fat Girls Are Easy

  1. Jealous that men prefer meat to bone.
  2. Big girls will trade sex for food.
  3. Larger women are so grateful for attention they are more willing to give up the goods.
  4. Skinny people are truly EVIL.
  5. Skinny people are stupid.
  6. Fat girls think lots of sex equals lots of love.

For some these reasons may be over the top but considering the years of size discrimination I don’t think that I am that far off the mark.  Low self esteem is a serious problem in the world today and to say that ladies are more prone to horizontal monkey humping because of their size is just as crazy as saying that I can’t have a successful blog because I am a black man.

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  1. Lindsay said:

    ,,, you’re kidding, right?

    April 14th, 2008 at 9:18 am
  2. Glen L Johnson said:

    Kidding about what? That people think that big girls are easy?

    April 14th, 2008 at 9:36 am
  3. Lindsay said:

    No - i’m aware of the misconception that fat girls are easy… maybe it’s just that i’m incredibly sleep deprived at the moment, but it seems like your six reasons… are they your reasons? or THEIR reasons?

    I am so confused. Maybe i should reread this after i’ve slept. :P

    April 14th, 2008 at 10:17 am
  4. Glen L Johnson said:

    LOL I understand no sleep. The reasons I listed are my opinion of what I think those that discriminate against fat folks are thinking and saying.

    April 14th, 2008 at 10:28 am
  5. WOW said:

    Well I think that is pretty weird but I think fat people are easy because they are desperate for it and will do anythng for it. BTW, what is the def of fat anyway? Anything below a size 6 is not fat. Anything above a size 8 is rediculous

    May 18th, 2008 at 8:31 pm
  6. Glen L Johnson said:

    all I can say to each his or her own.

    May 18th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
  7. Shayn said:

    Yes men do think fat women are easy! I have been fat my whole life and men only want sex and no relationship. They begin each date talking about sex and trying to feel me up when we first go out–in public!! I dress conservative nothing hanging out.
    My friends never have men do this to them and they are thin. My mom said men think that since I’m overweight I will be easy!

    June 30th, 2008 at 12:45 pm
  8. DANA said:

    I, as a plus size woman can honestly say that some men do think that bigger women are desperate and will do anything to obtain a lover. Yes this is sad. I believe that as a plus sized woman I am constantly trying to break the stereotypes that characterize fuller figured women as ignorant, loud, and easy. I hold several degrees, am very conservative and quiet ,and trust me, people get so angry that I do not fit the stereotype of what a larger Black female is “supposed” to be. They get extremely jealous that a plus sized woman has the confidence to be intelligent, attractive (yes, though it does sound cliche’ I really do have an exceptionally beautiful face, and hair, and teeth, etc…), tastefully well dressed, and articulate. I have been thin and back then, men would fall all over themselves because they were sure that a woman possessing my considerable attributes would not give them the time of day. Back then the dates and gifts were very, very expensive. In all truthfulness, they would actually beg. Now? A few extra pounds have convinced these same guys that I should be eager to accept anything from them. I am not. I didn’t want them then, and I don’t want them now. I will continue to be myself and I will continue to respect myself. All big girls should do the same.

    October 7th, 2008 at 1:15 pm
  9. Glen L Johnson said:

    Dana,

    You make some very good points. In the end it is about personal confidence now how easy a woman is. Thanks for stopping by.

    October 8th, 2008 at 9:11 am
  10. Mary B. said:

    Your article is reassuring of what I have felt for a long time. Like Dana, I am very smart, articulate, well dressed, hold a great job, no children and I am overweight. I consider myself to be a beautiful person on the inside and outside. For the longest period of time I would just avoid men who flirted with me because it would usually lead up to them just asking for sex. When I would say no, they would become persistent with lines like “you can make a guy wait to have sex with you, but if he is going to leave you after sex, he will leave you no matter how long he has to wait.”

    I attributed this kind of behavior to immaturity. Here recently I have gone out on dates with three older men, and guess what they all ask for? Sex. It really is sickening. One of the guys I sort of liked but after two dates of me telling him “no” and refusing his erotic behavior while simply kissing, he has stopped calling me. I know that I am better off with out him.

    I do not chase men and I would rather die alone than sacrifice my dignity to get “some attention.” To my plus-size sisters out there, keep your head, tell those sorry bastards to buzz off.

    November 19th, 2008 at 10:22 am

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