Why Men Love Hips and Curves and Women Loathe Them

Most of the fellas that I associate with are average in their preference for women. They prefer smaller women not to mention their definition of hips and curves are vastly different than mine. Years ago they used to tease me for my preference for bigger ladies, making comments like “you are just freaky” or “at least you have something soft to lay on.” When I tell ladies that I have dated how gorgeous they are they would not believe me. The most surprising of all is to hear how ladies view each other. Today’s topic basically comes down to why a man loves everything about a big woman and why women hate the same thing.

Men

1. Curves are sexy.
2. We like everything else big why not women that we date.
3. We are men.
4. We don’t want to follow stereotypes.
5. Sex.

Women

1. Embarrassment.
2. Size adds to the catty nature of some women.
3. Curves are not sexy.
4. They are women.
5. They believe the stereotypes.

What it boils down to ladies is that no matter what men like me say about how much we absolutely adore plus size women and everything about you until you believe for your self that you are beautiful on the inside first then no matter what size you are you will not like what you see in the mirror.  Men though we are visual creatures and like a woman with more meat on her bones be sure that you get past the outer surface to get to know the woman within so she does not feel that her size is the only reason you are interested.

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